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Who makes you feel unsafe?

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u/rabidhamster87 Sep 23 '22

Yeah. I was raised Christian and none of the churches we ever went to mentioned anything about needing the person you've wronged to forgive you. It was only ever about getting an imaginary man in the sky's forgiveness. In hindsight, I guess that explains why so many Christians are so bad at apologies or admitting when they were wrong.

The Islam way seems much healthier for the community.

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u/Malijaffri Sep 23 '22

That said, lots of Muslims still think that they can do whatever they want and be forgiven.

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u/rabidhamster87 Sep 23 '22

That's a bummer. Guess religion itself really is the problem.

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u/Lhinhar Sep 23 '22

I believe religions is actually 99% of the World's issues and mental illinesses we're seeing today. To be afraid of god watching over you is to be fearful of living your own life.

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u/PlanOk2801 Sep 23 '22

Wtf kind of churches did you go to, I guess different denominations teach it differently, but I’m Episcopalian and we were always taught that we should always seek forgiveness of the other people before seeking forgiveness from God

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u/Lhinhar Sep 23 '22

There lies the issue of christianity, too many different denominations that no one can truly call themselves "christians:".

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u/PlanOk2801 Sep 23 '22

Petition to start our own denomination and call it “truthest”

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u/Lhinhar Sep 23 '22

I would say it's time for Alchemy to return because in the end it's about acceptance. I accept all no matter what they all are.

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u/rabidhamster87 Sep 23 '22 edited Sep 23 '22

Baptist, non-denominational, Assembly of God, and Presbyterian.

I even went to an assembly of god Christian school for 2 years.

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u/PM_ME_KOREAN_GIRLS Sep 23 '22

The Bible also says to basically forgive the same person an infinite number of times but that seems glossed over for some reason

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u/Lhinhar Sep 23 '22

Technically, if you forgive you at least will have a better path to your life and peace no matter what, however what most people misinterpret is that "forgive but never forget for when they do it again, you may never forgive again". That implies you should never let them do it again.

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u/rabidhamster87 Sep 23 '22

Because we're not victim blaming here. It's entirely up to the victim whether they want to forgive or not.

We're just talking about the perpetrator seeking forgiveness right now.

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u/Eponymous-Username Sep 23 '22

It sounds like there'd be even less forgiveness going around. Not only do you have to get the forgiveness of a totally disinterested party, but also that of the person you actually wronged?

I think I'd remove at least one of those two from the equation as well. We might try the sky daddy this time, if we're shooting for meaningful apologies.

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u/rabidhamster87 Sep 23 '22

There can't be less forgiveness than zero. How do you get forgiveness if you never ask for it from anyone real in the first place?

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u/Eponymous-Username Sep 23 '22

That is a very fair rebuttal

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u/Ateretkoalaqueen Sep 23 '22

If this is what the Christians in your circles are saying and doing, they’re not reading the Bible. They’re not living godly lives as the Bible commands. The Bible says Jesus told men if you are at the temple offering a gift to the Lord and there remember something your brother has against you, you are to leave your gift there right away and go make the issue right and then return to offer your gift to God. So that sinning Monday to Saturday will not give them the forgiveness they want on Sunday. God knows the intents and* hearts of man, He isn’t dumb to fall for that trick. In fact, in another place in the New Testament, there is a warning to Christians who continue in sin after converting. Saying they are trampling the blood of Christ and how much greater a punishment they will have for knowing the truth and yet not doing what is right. So there’s that for ya.

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u/rabidhamster87 Sep 23 '22

Ah yes. The "those Christians aren't real Christians" defense. Thank you for coming in and proving my point from my other comment:

https://www.reddit.com/r/WhitePeopleTwitter/comments/xli6dw/z/ipk62e8

This isn't Christians "in my circle." This is Christians. Period.

This is over 3 DECADES of exposure to Christianity... This is what I've seen them preaching while going to different churches across two different states, different denominations, watching Christians on TV, and even attending a Christian school.

You need to start holding your own accountable instead of sticking your head in the sand and trying to pretend this is just a "few bad apples."

This is what it means to be a modern day Christian and if you call yourself a Christian, these are the people you choose to associate yourself with.

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u/Ateretkoalaqueen Sep 23 '22

I’m sorry I cannot call out the Christians you’ve encountered. But I have indeed called out other Christians I’ve met that have lived such as you say. Some receive it and are gracious, others are resentful and say it’s impossible to stop doing bad.

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u/Ateretkoalaqueen Sep 23 '22

I agree that most churches don’t say you have to get forgiveness from people you wrong. But from my own personal reading of the Bible, I know that what many churches teach is very wrong to what the Bible says and most people don’t actually read the Bible to even know what it says.